Let’s talk self-care

October 16
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It feels like self-care has been a big buzzword for the last year or so. I never got too into the word because I saw such a range of things associated with it. At first I saw people wearing facial masks and proclaiming that self-care. Then I’d see that going to the gym or drinking theiir morning coffee proclaiming it was self-care and I just became confused. So I’ve basically ignored the idea until recently. I recently actually spent a little more time looking into the idea and started to put together my own definiation of self care.

I consider self-care any activity or task, that is not a given, that is done to better onesself that is not a required life function but makes you a better person in that you are healthier, happier, or in a better mental state to tackle the day or week.

So to me this can be taking time to go for a walk in the morning, going to bed at a decent time, or even prepping lunches for the week on Sunday so it is done. (That really does make me a better person all week long.)


Once I came up with this definition I started to think about what I already do and what I can do to make myself better for the world. I realized that one of the activities I have been doing regularly, getting my nails done, is apart of this definition. About a year ago I joined a membership program at a local nail salon. With the membership I get one salon service a month, I do the gel mani and basic pedi, along with a one polish change. Because of the membership I know I am paying for the service each month so there is no financial thought about spending the money which is great. I know the cost is set aside and taken care of, all I have to do is schedule the appointment and show up. I usually go after work as it is on my way home.

At first glance this does not seem to fit in with my definition of self care, however it does make me better. Personally, I am horrible at doing my nails. I can’t “stay in the lines” and I generally just find myself frustrated afterwords or embarrassed with the results. Although I am not a hand model, having nice manicured fingers and toes makes me feel better about myself which in turn makes me more confident.

 


As I did some more thinking about what makes me a better me I realized that when I practice yoga regularly I am more happy, fit, and emotionally strong.  I realized that I wanted to start practicing on a regular basis to better myself both physically and emotionally. I have found a local studio and will begin taking classes regularly there. For me, yoga classes in studio are the best option as I get distracted and busy at home and end up rushing through my practice or skipping it for what deem more important at the time. Just like with the nail salon, the studio is a  monthly prepaid system so I don’t have to make the financial choice each time which is perfect for me.

 

These two activities make me a better person for me, my husband, and my workplace. Are they right for you? Who knows. But I do urge you to take the time to think about what you can do to set yourself up to be the best you. It can be anything, but only you can figure out what. Do you already know something that you’d like to do more regularly to make you the best you? Please share it below or tag me on Instagram or Twitter.

Fall fashion in warm climates

September 27
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As a resident of Florida and a basic girl I have the same problem every fall. I want to wear all the cute clothes but I also want to not die from overheating. Everyone on Instagram is going around sharing all these cute sweaters and boots and scarves and I am just sitting here hoping I can make it through the day without sweating through my tank top. I want all the cute things, but I always have to ask myself if it is really practical. Over the last few years I have learned some ways to make fall fashion work in florida.

Lightweight layering pieces

Skip the heavy sweaters and go for light, open sweaters. These can be paired with a tank to give the illusion of layers and fall color but without dying.
Here are a few I like:

 

Skip the boots for booties or mules

I know those mid-calf boots are adorable but they just don’t get enough fall wear around here. Try simple booties in a light color or mules. Although I have not yet jumped on this new mules trend I plan to get a pair soon, maybe in leopard. The best part? They are slip ons!

 

If you must wear a scarf, pick a thin breathable option

I opt for light cotton options. These are a little harder to find in the fall, but keep an eye out year round for scarves in fall and all-seasons colors.

 

Skip the tights

Tights are all the rage with skirts and dresses this time of year, but just skip them and go bare. A denim skirt with booties is a super cute fall look and your legs will thank you. Now that denim skirts are back I am just wishing I still had my old ones from high school.

 

 

 

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My Instant Pot

September 19
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The current biggest fad in kitchen gadgetry is the Instant Pot. What is an Instant Pot you ask? It is a seven in one magic mystical cooking device. It is a slow cooker, a rice cooker, a pressure cooker, and a yogurt maker. It sautés, steams and might even read your dreams. OK, maybe not that last one, but you get the picture.

I had been lusting after this pot for about a year when I finally grabbed on on Prime Day from Amazon in July. The most popular function of this device is pressure cooking. In the past, pressure cookers were stove top devices that many of us remember being warned about as children. I remember my grandmother having one and my mother being scared to death that she would hurt herself with it. So when people started talking about pressure cookers again I was surprised that nobody was concerned about safety. After doing a little research I realized that these new cookers are much safer and have several fail-safes set up to protect users. 

So the idea is that this is a total time saver. In pressure cook mode  it cooks meat, both frozen and fresh in no time and can prepare the types of dishes you generally make in a slow cooker in a fraction of the time. Pressure cooking is great for dried beans which we have recently converted to. I used to cook my beans in a slow cooker and it just took all day. In the Instant Pot I can get them done in a fraction of the time.

I’ve been using mine for a few weeks now and have been enjoying it. My only complaint is that many of the recipes online say something like “from raw to on the table in 15 minutes,” Which totally skips the time it takes the machine to get up to pressure as well as the time it takes to release said pressure. So keep that in mind when planning out a timeline with an instant pot.

 

Anyways, here are a few recipes I have made and liked:’
Orange Chicken (Even the hubs liked this and he’d never had it before)
Meatloaf and Mashed Potatoes  (I added a packet of carrots for a one dish meal)
Simple shredded chicken (from frozen!)
Potato Salad (Or at least the potatoes and eggs)

I’ve also  successfully cooked baby back ribs, frozen ground turkey, and hard boiled eggs and I can’t wait to make yogurt in the future.

Do you have an Instant Pot? Please share your favorite recipes with me! Also, don’t forget to follow me on Instagram where I am sharing my Instant Pot successes whenever I can.
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My favorite planner stickers

September 3
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Please note: This is not a sponsored post. Affiliate links are in use.

There are a lot of companies out there making planner stickers these days.  At first they were few and far between, expensive and online only. Now it seems you can get them everywhere. By far my favorite planner stickers are the Happy Planner Value Packs.

You get your monies worth. These packs retail for about $20 but often times you can get them for less on sale or with coupons. Each pack comes with 30 sheets so this is less than a dollar a sheet at retail price and even less when they are on sale.

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I love cute stuff as much as the next girl, but I want stickers that help me make the most of my planner. When I use stickers in my planner I want to mix both function and form. I like to keep two types of sticker books at hand, cute ones, and fictional ones.

 

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If you have a Michaels nearby that is great, but if not you can pick up a set on Amazon with free prime shipping if you’re a member. I hate waiting for stuff, so I love how accessible these are. By just having one of two of these around I can make a super cute layout that really helps me make the best of my week.

 

Have you used these stickers? What did you think?

 

 

 

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Summer Favorites

August 30
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So it has been a hot minute since I have done a favorites post, but I think it is time to get back into it. I have a few fun things to share today and I’ll try to get back into sharing on a monthly basis.

 

I have been loving this Stok refrigerated cold brew coffee. I generally just make regular coffee in my french press to use for iced coffee but this stuff is just too good. I got it on sale for $3.99 for the 48 oz bottle at Publix which seems great. The only downfall? It is so good I could drink the entire bottle in a few days.

 

If you’ve followed me much you might know that my husband and I run a board game blog. We have been running around the last few months trying new games and even went to Gen Con in Indianapolis to play new games. One of my favorite new games we have tried is Cottage Garden. I love how beautiful and calming the art is. Although the game itself seems very chill it is also a great logical competitive game. My husband and I love to play together on a quiet evening as it is a challenge but not too much. It is also great for kids as it involves lots of great analytical thinking skills.

 

About two months ago I was in a Walgreens minding my own business when I saw that the e.l.f. section of the cosmetics area has a bunch of clearance signs. Of course I had to check it out. I don’t use a ton of e.l.f. products, but they do have a few I am loyal to. Read about those here.  I was super lucky and found many of their products half off. I bought a few of my favorites as well as a few new items which included this foundation blurring brush. So I took it home and there it sat for almost two months until I really needed to clean my regular foundation brush but hadn’t and then remembered I had this. Let me tell you. I LOVED it. Super soft, smooth, lots of bristles, and no fall out. It really does live to the name of blurring. Prefect for your favorite liquid foundation.

 

My birthday was in July and my super sweet sister got me the Tartelette In Bloom Clay Palette from Tarte. I had been wanting a new eyeshadow palette but kept telling myself that my old Naked 2 Palette was enough. This palette is everything you could want in a palette. Rich colors, lots of options and great pigment. I love that I can make day and night looks and all of the colors are ones I will actually use. (thanks sis!)

Ok, that’s all for today. I will check back next month with a new list of favorites. Have you tried something new and loved it? Comment here with what is is or tag me on instagram or twitter.  I’m @_amberdowns.

What I do with old planners

August 8
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One of the questions I always get asked is what I do with my old planers. I know everyone’s answers and reasonings will be different, but my answer is a easy one. I keep them. I store old planners on a shelf in my office; close enough to be grabbed and reviewed at any time. I do not keep old planners that I did not use. I keep my planners for both practical and sentimental reasons.  These reasons work for me but may or may not work for you.


When I start a new planner for a new year I go back to the monthly spreads of my previous planner to find any important reoccurring dates; birthdays, anniversaries, ect. I also note the date of events that happen every year such as 5Ks and festivals. Generally speaking these types of events take place on the same weekend such as the third Saturday in July. If the upcoming event is just an estimated date I put it on a sticky note and put that in the monthly spread of my new planner. This makes planning out vacations and other events much easier.

I also use my old planners to remember when things happened. Often times I will reember something like “I don’t remember the day she had the baby, but I know it was the same day as my hair appointment and I think it was July.” Then I can go to July, see when I had my hair done, and make a pretty good guess that is the child’s birthday. I also go back and use my old planners to remember when the last time I had a doctor’s appointment, had the carpets cleaned, and other infrequent tasks. I win a lot of bets with my husband this way. :)

The last reason I keep my old planners around is for the sentimental value. Just flipping through an old planner or notebook from a few years ago opens up a whole wealth of memories that you may have almost forgotten happened. Just like we take vacation photos to remember great trips, flipping though an old planner is like a trip down memory lane remembering what life was like then. I am sure these memories will be even more precious as time goes by.

Do you keep old planners? What do you do with them? Share below!

 

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Planner review- Agendio

August 8
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For months I have been searching for the perfect, affordable, sturdy, A5 planner and I think I may have found it. Agendio is a custom planner company that makes both daily and weekly planners as well as A5 and spiral bound options.  I had found other companies that made daily A5  options, but many of them cost  way too much, were not visually appealing, or did not have strong paper.

My favorite part of Agendio is that you can customize basically everything about your planner. First you get to decide if you want a full planner (think spiral) or if you just need inserts which they size and punch for Filofax, Franklin Covey, Day Timer, and regular 3 ring binders. Because I will be using this product for work I wanted an A5 planner punched to fit into my Filofax.

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I have been using an A5 for work for over a year now and I have enjoyed how functional it is.  The binder itself has lots of pockets to stash things, I keep a pouch in the back to store things, and the I keep a punch at work so that I can add pages as needed so I always have what I need with me.

Ok, onto this planner.

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I chose a fairly simple daily layout. I wanted an area for my priorities first thing as well as a place for a schedule/appointments.  I also made a notes area on the right where I can list to-dos as well as notes from meetings and phone calls. I like to log all this information in my daily sheets so when I need to go back and reference it, I can just go to the day the meeting or call took place. When I need more space I just add a blank sheet to the page.

One of the most awesome aspects of this planners is that you can add events like holidays, birthdays, and anniversaries as well as reoccurring events like yoga every Thursday. I used this to add daily blog task reminders so that I would keep them in mind.

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You can also add on fun extras like a page marker bookmark, notes pages, contacts pages, and the most interesting add-on, perforated page corners. The idea is that you rip it off after the day so it is easy to keep track where you are in the book. It makes sense, but is till new to me.

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I can keep talking about it here, but really you need to just check it out and play with the customizer to see which setup is best for you. The customizer is so easy to use and makes total sense.

 

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Note: Agenido sent me a free product for review purposes. All opinions shared are my own.

Six things to do before you start your new job

July 17
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So today I am starting a new job at a new location. I will be working will an entire new staff who have only met me during the interview process and know nothing of the former work Amber. Part of me is extremely scared; new jobs are scary. The other part of me is excited. How often do we get a do-over, a fresh start? Think of starting a new job as the first day at a new school. You are a new person and you can be whoever you want to be. Were you the office gossip at your old job? The person everyone always asked for the latest news? Now is your chance for a fresh slate; a chance to become a better person.

Today I am sharing a list of six ways you can change your office self to make the most of the new job. the first are habit based and the rest are personality based. Please note: I am not saying change who you are. Please never change who you are. However, we all have bad habits and lifestyle choices we would like to change. This is my and your change.
1. Change your morning routine.
I am one of those people that seem to always leave for work just in the nick of time. I’m not late, but I’m not early either. I’d like to take this new opportunity to change my mornings. I am getting up earlier and doing 20 minutes of yoga in the morning to help stretch and relax myself. Although I am not new to yoga, I am exited to use this change in my life to set a time to practice it more. Do you wish your mornings went differently? Now is your chance to mold them to your liking. Maybe you’d like to read or work out in the morning, or maybe just have time to check your email. Use your new job to reset your mornings into what you want them to be.
2.Change your morning beverage.
Coffee person? Tea person? Chances are you are somewhat identified by your A.M. drink choice. Use the new job to force a change if needed. When I started my last job I decided I was going to drink 40 ounces of water during the work day. Other staff noticed and this became part of my work identity which made it easy to keep up. If they didn’t see me drinking water throughout the day the sometimes even asked why.
3. What about food?
Now is a great time to switch it up and start bringing your own healthy lunch to work. Become known as the person who always has great lunches and is a regular in the breakroom. Your coworkers will notice this and may even ask you for ideas. Once they know you’re a brown bagger they will hopefully skip you when they go out for fast food.
4. Refresh your wardrobe
Surprisingly, one of the hardest things to change is our appearance. Often times when you start changing how you dress or wear your hair or makeup, people start to talk. Why is Amber suddenly wearing a skirt and makeup? Everyone wants to know. However, at your new job you could be the person who always looks her best. (Pro tip: Wait until a day or two on the job to purchase new clothes. This gives you a minute to get a better idea of the workplace culture and dress.

5. Go to happy hour
As we have already kind of mentioned, you coworkers remember you and what you do or don’t do. If you say no to Happy Hour or other after work events enough times they stop asking. Maybe this is your chance to join the group. Of course on the other hand, if you need to skip Happy Hour tell your new coworkers that you cannot hang out after hours and they will stop asking.

6. Be organized
Wether or not you were organized and used a planner at your old job, now is the chance to jump on that bandwagon. Depending on your job, you may or may not need a daily planner to help you with your work. I have been using a daily planner for the last few years at work and it has made me so much more productive, prepared, and responsible. Check back in a few weeks for an update on my work planner.

 

I know I am super excited about my first day and I hope that these tips are useful to you. Have any other great ideas for starting a new job? Share then in the comments.

 

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Prime Day 2017

July 10
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It is here friends, Amazon Prime day 2017.  This is the day when Amazon gives deep discounts on some of their most popular products. and services.

 

Don’t have a prime account yet? See why you need one here and sign up over here.

Already a Prime member? Get $10  to use on Prime Day when you stream Prime Video for the first time on your TV.

 

My favorite deals:

Amazon Echo Regular $179.99 on sale for $89.99. HALF OFF!!

Kindle Fire 8″ Regular $79.99 on sale for $49.99

Kindle Fire 7″  Regular $49.99 on sale for $29.99

Ninja Coffee Bar: Regular $179.99 on sale for $104.99 (Add it to your cart to get the deal.)

Promo code: $5 off a $15 books purchase with code PRIMEBOOKS17

Check out these beauty deals at 40% off here.

Favorite longwear lip products

July 7
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Let me tell you, the day I discovered long wear lip products was the day my life was changed. I am one of those people who just look and feel 100x better with a little bit of lip color. I have a fairly pale complexion so just a little bit of color really does go a long way. Sadly, most of the products I have tried in the past wore off during the day and I just don’t have time for touch ups every two hours.

Today I am sharing a few of my favorite long wear lip products both from department store and drugstore brands. I use all of these products regularly and have been impressed by their results.

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Maybelline Super Stay Matte Lip 

This is the newest Maybelline lip product right now. I was lucky to have two colors sent to me to test out and let me tell you, I LOVE it. I was unsure at first as it goes on a little sticky, but it dries within a minute and really does last all day.  My favorite is Lover.  I put this on at 8pm one night and forgot to wash it off when I went to bed. It was still on the next morning at 11am.  Amazing. FYI you will want to use a stronger makeup remover to take this off. I suggest this to remove it. Oh, and I love that this is on Amazon Prime.

 

Kat Von D Liquid Lip

I love Kat Von D products for their longwear ability. Her foundation is one of my favorites and this lip product has been added to my list.

 

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I was recently sent a bottle of this lip product and was super confused when I opened the package. The whole thing is only like two inches tall. They call this a shaker product so instead of the traditional long tube with a wand you have a bottle that you shake and then the applicator is in the lid. You can then use this tip first to line the lips and then fill in with color. The dry time on this one is a little longer but it is worth it. I am loving this in pink.

 

CoverGirl Outlast All-Day Lip Color

This was the first long wear lip product I had ever used. I purchased it at CVS but was unaware of its power until I tried it out. After using it I was in love. I had always been the person who was either reapplying lipstick all day or with colorless lips after 10am. (It was usually the latter.) This product is actually a two step system. The liquid color is applied and then after it dries there is a clear gloss cover to lock it in and add moisture. I got tons of compliments and told anyone who asked about it how awesome it was.

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Disclosure: Some of the items shared today were provided free of charge for review. All opinions are my own. Also, This post contains affiliate links. If you purchase an item via a link from the page I will receive a small commission. This does not affect the price you pay for the item. In fact, I research the best prices for my site. 

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